Heal your relationships as well as your body

Qigong is an ancient chinese healing method that I have recently started practicing. One of the very useful ways I have learned to use it is to focus the healing energy on an uncomfortable relationship. I traditionally start the qigong meditation with the thought, "I am in the universe, the universe is in me, the universe and I are one". When I am healing a relationship I add to that the name of the individual that I want to improve my relationship with like this, "I am in the universe and Jane, the universe and Jane are in me, the universe, Jane and I are one." I have had the most amazing rezults when I do this. I have found that disagreements are easily settled and hard feelings are disolved away. I have even found it to be effective in settling a court case.

How many relationships would you like to heal? What a difference would it make in your life learning to heal and create peaceful loving relationships?

I am grateful for my qigong practice which helps me to conect with others as well as improve my health, my tenant Norma, successfully negotiating the pay ment of rent, the live Veretekk marketing training and my light tools that help me to focus on the positive and bring in healing energy.

I acknowledge my self for having the tough discussions about paying the rent on time with my tenant, grocery shoping, inviting Mom and Dad to join me in the qigong healing meditation, showing Donna how I run my online business profitably and spinning.

Things that I know have the potential to affect my energy today are calling Leo, calling the city building inspector, writing a marketing email for Immunotec, meditating and taking the time to do something fun like spinning my purple wool.

YOU are magical,
Dianne

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Create the life of your dreams.
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Speed up your growth

Part of what keeps many of us from growing is knowing that the stressors in life grow with us. Because of this we often avoid growing and progress out of fear. When what we really need is to learn how to manage our stress. One thing that most psychologists agree on is that stress is our own reaction to what is going on around us. In other words, stress is a story that we tell ourselves or what we focus our attention on rather than being a set thing. For example, one person may find performing in front of a crowd very stressful, while someone else, an actor say, may find it to be exciting and something they look forward to.

So it looks like one of the fastest ways to grow is by learning how to handle previously stressful things without getting stressed. How is that done? Well I'm not entirely sure. I will give you a couple of methods that I use, but I'm still learning and working on this one. One of the things that I've found that helps is to delegate some tasks. The more focused you can be the less stressed you will be. Identify the tasks that you don't have to personally handle and start delegating the ones you dislike the most. Find ways to afford it. It pays for itself quickly.

Start meditating or set aside some quiet time for yourself every day. This allows you to create/find answers to your pressing problems. Learn to see problems as opportunities to grow and improve. The best way I know of to do this is to start changing your language and call them opportunities. When you learn to call them opportunities rather than problems you learn to look forward to them rather than wanting to run away from them.

I am grateful for a fun safe trip to New York City, wonderful meditation CDs, a check from Immunotec for $284.79, my friend Auggie who is now a general contractor and sleeping in my own very comfortable bed.

I acknowledge my self for calling the Pittsburg, CA police, sending Auggie the list of things to look at the apartment building, taking a riding lesson, getting unpacked and working on my online business.

Things that may affect my energy today are looking for a housekeeper, doing laundry, writing letters for my autoresponder, contacting Immunotec to get permission to use articles from the Focus and meditating.

YOU are magical,
Dianne

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The power of focus

What I learned today is when I get in a tough situation where I can't see things being resolved favorably, I need to focus. I need to focus on exactly what I want to have happen and focus only on that. I need to not worry about how it will happen or what the other people will do to make it happen. Just focus on the people that have to be involved and what I want as my outcome and focus on that to the exclusion of all else.

I am grateful for receiving a full months rents from all my tenants, finding Veretekk, a new resource for business promotion, the apartment building is at break even, Dad is letting me show him what I've learned about online marketing and he is thinking bigger.

I acknowledge my self for paying the bills, doing the banking, researching Veretekk, joining Veretekk silver and showing Dad how to get started marketing on line.

Things that may affect my energy today are doing more research on Veretekk, meditation, healing work for AJ,

YOU are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!
Tips on creating the life of your dreams.
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Connecting the dots

I was quite surprised today to find that I really do think about and approach things from a very different perspective than do other people. I start by getting clear about my objective. What do I want, what are the results that will bring me. How will I know when I have achieved that? Then I start looking at what I am doing to see if it is getting me closer to what I want. If it is I do more of that if it isn't then I change and do something different.

I am always looking to connect the dots. Remember those dot to dot pictures you did when you were a kid? You had a page full of dots that had numbers by them and you started at dot 1 and drew a line to dot 2 and then to dot 3 and so on, until you had revealed a picture. Then I got so that I could just look at the dots and where they were placed and see what the picture was going to be. That ability to see what the picture will be when all of the dots are connected is what empowers you to choose a more accurate and faster path to your goal.

So how do you learn the skill of connecting the dots? By asking yourself when you start a task will this action directly and immediately bring me the results I am looking for? Let's say your objective is to create an income of $5000/month from your online business. You sit down to add pages to your site and ask your self, "Will adding these pages to my site directly bring in more money?" If you don't have anything for sale on your site then the answer will be NO! It doesn't matter how much traffic your site generates if you don't have any products for sale there more traffic can not create more sales. In that case you need to look at doing something else. If you have products for sale on your website then the answer will be yes. Go ahead and add those pages unless you know of something else you could do that would make a bigger difference.

I am grateful for my Mastermind group, my coach Sandi, that my recurring online business expenses are all now paid for by recurring online sales, that in spite of technical issues I was able to get on the Mastermind call and greate new ideas for teaching.

I acknowledge my self for explaining to Sandy how to import and manipulate pictures on her computer over the phone, thinking differently than others do, having the patience to teach kinesthetic learners over the phone, understanding how things work and staying focused on doing those things that lead to my goal.

Things that may affect my energy today are my Mastermind call, talking with my coach Sandi, meditation, writing and spinning.

You are Magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!
Tips on creating the life of your dreams.
You CAN have everything you want!

See the best in every situation

Yesterday was a reminder for me to look for the best in every situation. I have a difficult situation with a tenant I have been working for some time to resolve. Yesterday the tenant took their problem to an attorney.

When I received the call from their attorney I could have chosen to see that as an escalation of the problem and become defensive. Instead, because I had meitated on a peaceful resolution and on opening our heart chakras, when the attorney called late yesterday, I was able to discuss the situation with her very calmly and tell her good things about my tenant and explain my desire to work things out.

It isn't yet settled but I know that my attitude made a huge impact on the sittuation. I will continue to meditate on a peaceful and fair resolution and on opening our heart chakras.

I am grateful for Lucy from comunity housing, Perla's attorney calling me, being able to help Sandy with her book, good reading skills and being good at learning my way through new situations.

I acknowledge my self for cleaning the kitchen, paying the bills, meditating, responding openly and freely with Perla's attorney and calling Leo.

Things that may affect my energy today are meditating, calling Sandy, working on my book, healing work and attending a marketing teleclass.

Remember YOU are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!

Planning pays off!

This tuff situation is not yet fully resolved, but I can feel the results of all of the planning and preperation that I put into it. The progress I made today is very good.

I put on my support and meditated on healing the rift between myself and the others involved and on opening my heart chakra before I made the calls. It realy paid off with me remaining calm, confident, friendly and supportive. I am celebrating the rapid conclusion of this situtaion.

YOU are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!

Planning for success

I am grateful for Leo my very helpful tenant, Paul's help in deciding strategies, friends to chear me up and chear me on and remembering to use my tools.

I acknowledge my self for meditating before making touchy phone calls, getting clear about the outcome I want, making no judgements about the situation, looking for win/win results and being willing to listen.

Things that may affect my energy today are phone calls to resolve a difficult situation, meitation, helping a friend, relaxing and spinning.

YOU are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!

Make the most of the tools you have

It is better to have a few tools that you use well then to have many tools that you never use. I just realized that I get my best ideas for writing in the shower. Now that may sound like a silly place to do my writing, but it works for me.

Today I realized it was because my bathroom is in the east, which is my relationship direction in feng shui, and one of the things that water represents is communications. So for me that combination stirs up all kinds of ideas to write about. Now that I have recognized this I can use it more intentionally to aid my work. Maybe I will put a fountain on the east side of my house with a gazebo where I could write. I don't know yet exactly how I will put this information to use yet, but I will be capitalizing on it.

I am grateful for my Mastermind group, recognizing new ways to use the tools that I have, growing my down line, my friend Sandy and sharing ideas with her.

I acknowledge my self for being prepared when I went to the apartments, using my tools today, meditating, picking up the meat for the year and doing more healing work.

Things that may affect my energy today are my Mastermind call, going back to the apartments, paying bills, doing the banking and writing.

You are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!

Use the tools that you have!

I have once again realized that I was not using all of the tools that I have at my disposal. I found when I girded myself with my support that the only tenant I have who speaks english well offered to come over and help me negotiate with the other tenants. I also found that when I directed my meditations towards negotiating a winning outcome for myself as well as all of the tenants that things went much easier today.

I am grateful for receiving my new space clearing and healing tools, receiving my merino wool for spinning, being able to get DSL at my house, making several sales and increasing my downline.

I acknowledge my self for negotiating a settlement with the tenants, meditating, doing healing work, blogging and emailing several customers.

Things that have the potential to affect my energy today are completing the agreement with the tenants, speaking with Rey, joining my spinning group, talking with my friend Sandy and journaling my gratitudes, acknowledgements and energy affectors.

YOU are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!

Having the right support is major!

After yesterday's crazy events I realize just how important having the right support is. Leo realy helped me to stay relatively calm while tenants were arguing. Sandy helped me to brainstorm more ideas for space and energy clearing at the appartment and Paul was very supportive and just a gem, cooking dinner and then cleaning up so that I could recharge my energy.

One of the techniques that I have learned to use and which I did not use to it's best effect yesterday is to make a list of all your support and to attach it to the back of your chair. So I write down on a 3x5 card, Universe, Jesus, Paul, Sandy, etc... Now I have in the past when I knew I would be dealing with a very difficult issue done a veriation on this where I wrote my support on surgical tape and taped it to my back so that I carried it with me in my awareness when I went to court and traveled where ever I needed to go. I should have done that yesterday and I have already done that for today.

I am grateful for my very good tenant and friend Leo who helped me with a very stressful situation yesterday, my dear freind Sandy who also helped me to release and relax, my meditations which kept me relatively calm in a stressful situation, my space clearing tools and my Sweat Heart Paul who cooked and cleaned the kitchen for me last night.

I acknowledge my self for meditating, handling a stressful situation well, photo reading, choosing which book I will be making available on line soon, space and energy clearing, making changes to my web hosting and blogging.

Things that will affect my energy today are more of the same tenant issues, more space and energy clearing, meditating, healing work and staying in touch with my friends/support.

Remember YOU are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!

Protecting and boosing my energy

I have a couple of things I will be dealing with today that I don't like and because of that they usually affect my energy badly. With that in mind I need to take some defensive messures. Do my meditation before dealing with the tenants, collecting rent and receiving the roof report. That way I will not be taken as low by those activities. I can also choose to do a meditation that is more protective in nature than my usual one and plan to take it easy or relax afterwards.

I am grateful for free tele-classes, a new self improvement content website, learning two new traffic generation techniques, a wonderful riding lesson and an improving Alexa rating on my website.

I acknowledge my self for riding, attending the tele-class, meditating, practicing my healing work and having progressed enough in my web knowledge to actually understand how to implement the new traffic techniques that I learned.

I know tht my energy today will be affected by the roof inspection report, meeting with tenants, collecting rent, meditation and working on my web promotions. Knowing that I have a couple of things that I will be handeling today that I do not enjoy I can take steps to protect and bloster my energy before I deal with them.

Do you have negative energy tasks to handle today? How are you planning to handle them?

YOU are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!

Learning to release

Not every thing you see coming up for you during your day will have positive effects on your energy. In my case today, I have chosen to release one of the items that I have been struggling with. Getting the software installed and running on my site has turned out to be more difficult than I had expected and I have decided to let it go, to stop letting it negatively affect my energy and my progress.

Today my intention is to get Traffic Huricane installed on my site and photo read the material I received from Win Wenger.

I am grateful for my Mastermind group, my coach Sandi Amorim, a new potential client, an html cheat sheet and a huge beautiful green dragonfly that chose to fly into my bedroom to wake me this morning.

I acknowledge my self for cleaning the kitchen, sweeping the floor, sending a card to someone who needs chearing up, attending my Mastermind call and my coaching sesion with Sandi.

Things that will affect my energy today are the Mastermind call, the coaching call, my Debbie's birthday party, turning Traffic Huricane over to the experts to install on my site and learning some basic html programming.

Have a magical day,
Dianne

Magical YOU!

What do I want to accomplish today?

I take a moment each day to focus on what I want to accomplish that day. My intention for today is to contact Andrea Fisher, Michael Joyce and Rey Campos.

I am grateful for the prospective tenant who was so close to what I am looking for, the intuitive dreams I am having, my friend Leo's help, my tenant Barbra and healing my dog Perci.

I acknowledge myself for going up to the apartments, meditating, building new supportive habits, working calmly with an irate tenant and arranging for the exterminator to come out to the apartments.

Things that will affect my energy today are meditating, writing, horseback riding, drinking plenty of water and being aware of my choices.

Remember YOU are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!

My gratitude, acknowledgements and energy

I am grateful for the Subtle Energies workshop today, working with Marrie Diamond again, reconecting with old friends, making new friends and learning new techniques for space clearing.

I acknowledge my self for attending the Subtle Energies workshop, helping someone heal her pain, making a new business contact, having fun while I learned and enjoying my self.

Things that impact my energy today are attending the second day of the Subtle Energies workshop, drinking enough water, meditating, practicing reading the energies, making new friends and using my healing energies.

YOU are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!

It's all energy

If you haven't seen the movie What the Bleep?, you should. It's a great story showing how thoughts are energy and create reality. Whether you love your life or you hate it, you created it and you can change it if you know how. Change your thoughts, change your life!

A baby that pokes a key into an electical outlet and gets shocked is not a victim. The world did not do anything to them. Their own ignorance shocked them. I'm not saying that they are to blame, just that they are responsible for what happened.

Blame doesn't fix anything, it doesn't stop us from hurting our selves with our ignorance or make us feel better about what we have already done. Personally I think it is quite useless. We wouldn't beat up on someone who just tripped and fell down, so why beat our selves up?

Knowing that it's all energy is great, but so what?

I keep a gratitude, acknowledgement and energy journal. I've heard about these several different places, but my own coach, Sandi Amorim, is the one who got me started doing it. Knowledge is not power, action based on knowledge is power. I invite you to join me in posting here the things you are grateful for, the things you acknowledge yourself for and the things that may impact your energy today.

I am grateful for a possible new tenant who just called to schedule a viewing of my appartment for rent, my great tenant Leo who found her, my mastermind group who supports my online efforts, talking with my friend Paul Scheele of Learning Strategies and Bolgger.com for making this blog free and easy for me to get started.

I acknowledge my self for starting this blog, making my mastermind call this morning, meditating, calling my tenants, doing the laundry and cleaning up after the dog.

Things that impact my energy today are meditating, starting something new (this blog), my mastermind call, learning to make better use of my time and coaching someone else on how to make better use of their time.

Remember YOU are magical,
Dianne

Magical YOU!